Amazing. Dar cleared the clog in both our toilet drainage pipe. He can be a plumber liao. He used a cane ( to beat children one ) and a toilet bowl brush to clear all the hairs that got stuck inside.

Tomorrow going for an interview at Peninsula Plaza. It's a employment agency and they got a job offer at Kaki Bukit as Acct Assistant. Hope I can get a satisfied job in my 1st interview after 5 years at ExxonMobil.

Time to pray to all the God above. : ) Guan yin niang niang, Jesus Christ, Ala etc. Bless me.

4 days never blog and I duno where to start.

Saturday went Polyclinic and Elia have her 1st 6 in 1 jab. Took this in the morning when the both of them are drinking milk and watching cartoon.







That night went Tan Tock Seng to visit Dar's dad ( admitted on Friday ) then send his mum back to Potong Pasir and went to Chinatown to walk one round. ( My kids with my mum ) Reach my mum home around 12mn and both of them havent sleep. Elia cried the whole while at my mum house. I think she recognise house and ppl now. Brought them back and they fall asleep immediately.


Sunday went Carreforre and bought groceries. Mum asked me wana buy 4D anot and Dar said buy his father's ward number. I accidentally said 1049 instead of 1094 and it really came out 1094 starter. There goes our $500. Just not our luck.


Monday Charlotte KK appointment to see her hand and as usual the PROFESSOR said she's still young so he cannot do anything or surgery to her hand. So paid $22 to KK for nothing again. Next appointment is a year later.


Before going KK, we pay a visit to Dar's dad again for a while and had our brunch at the foodcourt there. A cleaner at the foodcourt told me better dun bring babies to hospital cos got virus but I told her bo bian it's their grandfather lor. And the auntie asked me is it both boy. I pengsan! Til now still got ppl say my kids look like boyboy. haiz...


Dar took this while waiting for CHarlotte's queue number at KK Clinic P.





Yesterday evening Jessica and Jeramin came my house cos Jeramin wana pass the handphone accessories she bought at HKG to me.


We ordered KFC and chopchop eat cos Jeramin have to reach home by 8plus. Jessica even said she's going to give me a carton of oranges cos her suppliers gave her dad company 12 cartons. So sweet of her...


Thank you Jessica!~ and THank you Jeramin for offering to deliver the carton to me and also thank you for the My Melody handphone strap. I love it alot. : )





TODAY is my 3rd year wedding anniversary. Duno Dar wana celebrate anot. : (

WOW!!! Dar's handphone can watch UTUBE & play FaceBook!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Guess he is well prepared to take public transport to work after byebye to his SCR1163B. Can surf internet on bus / MRT. :p

But if he's buying motorbike then he can't surf while riding right ? ermmmmm.....

Extracted from Ginnelle's email to me. Have you wonder why.....

Can you cry under water?

How important does a person have to be before they are considered assassinated instead of just murdered?

Once you're in heaven, do you get stuck wearing the clothes you were buried in for eternity?

Why does a round pizza come in a square box?

How is it that we put man on the moon before we figured out it would be a good idea to put wheels on luggage?

Why is it that people say they "slept like a baby" when babies wake up like every two hours?

If a deaf person has to go to court, is it still called a hearing?

Why are you IN a movie, but you're ON TV?

Why do people pay to go up tall buildings and then put money in binoculars to look at things on the ground?

Why do doctors leave the room while you change? They're going to see you naked anyway.

Why is "bra" singular and "panties" plural?

Why does Goofy stand erect while Pluto remains on all fours? They're both dogs!

If corn oil is made from corn, and vegetable oil is made from vegetables, what is baby oil made from?

If electricity comes from electrons, does morality come from morons?

Ever noticed that the Alphabet song and Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star have the same tune?

Why did you just try singing the two songs above?

Did you ever notice that when you blow in a dog's face, he gets mad at you, but when you take him for a car ride; he sticks his head out the window?

Just finished cleaning the kitchen cabinets and kitchen windows. SHag.... No more strength to cook.

Dar going to reward me a MacDonald Meal later hehehe

Parents bringing Charlotte to Heartland Mall now. So good... : )

Dar's Lancer was sold to a car dealer to scrap. So his last day driving his SCR1163B is on the last day of January. Which means we will not have any transport on CNY. sianz....

Getting back 10K+ from the scarp value. He's not going to buy new car but motorcycle instead. 5 years of car luxury is enough bah... this car see us through our wedding and the birth of my 2 babies. Will miss this old but problemless car....

Mum bought some decorations for CNY at Chinatown last week and she gave me some to hang in my house. So oooh biang... but she kept insisting it will bring luck to us so i allow her to hang whatever RED colour ornaments she bought.

Elia started to take brown rice cos she's now 4 months old. SHe loved it and keep on crying for more when we are done feeding her. I mixed it in her milk cos I wan to feed her dilute first before I give her heavy mixture.

Shuping should be at Hong Kong by now. She bought the Jetstar buy 1 get 1 free tickets and is this morning flight. Envy her... can 买东西 吃东西

Played with Dar's handphone yesterday night and found our house map in the GPS. He bought the phone partly becos of this GPS function.

Read one of my friend's sister blog about her going Genting ( 1st time ) and she called up the operator to ask where is the air con control system cos she's feeling very cold. Piangz.... my 1st time to Genting I already noticed there's NO air con lor... the natural "coolness" in Genting is more cold than air con so why waste money installing air con ? She never use her head when she ask ah... hehehe

Super conscious whenever Charlotte drip her saliva or eat biscuit in the living room just now cos I mopped the floor til sparkling clean yesterday. hahaha I am avoiding to mop again before CNY. But I don't think the cleaniness can last til next week.

Vacuum and mop the whole house just now. Wiped all the mirrors and wipe dust on shelves also. Tired. Only managed to finished the living room. Tomorrow have to clean the kitchen cabinet, fridge, wall tiles and basins. Then Friday wash 2 toilets. Peng san.

Dar bought a new handphone yesterday. I think is Nokia N95 or duno what. Got map and can surf internet fast by wireless ( free ). He paid $450 without any trade in and signed contract with Singtel. My contract is expiring soon too but I am not thinking of changing handphone yet.

Submitted 1 application for account assistant today thru JobDB. Hope got good news soon.

Going to cook dinner liao... ciao

Chinese New YEar is soooo near..... and my spring cleaning is not even 50% done. No time already No time already.... Ohhhh Nooooo

Yesterday went UOB to change new notes and the queue is soooo long. Waited for almost an hour and one person is only limited to change $500.

Stick some diamontle on my thumbdrive. Very impressed with my work. Really needs patience doing this kind of art work.

Arranging to go Joleen's house on the 4th day of CNY to 拜年. Jeramin might not be able to make it. She just smsed me telling me she bought a My Melody hp accessory for me from Hong Kong. So happy and touched cos she bothered to read my blog to "discover" my fever in My Melody. hehehe Thanks Jeramin Dear!~

Took this photos just now at my mum house. Charlotte and Elia got a common hobby! Sucking their index fingers.. hehe and one photo of them together.

Charlotte fall down yesterday and had a big bump on her forehead. Poor thing... so heartpain....

Elia learning to flip over but her hand is still in the way, I predict a week later she will master the skill already. She's learning faster than Charlotte. I am impressed. : )

Charlotte know whenever I ask her to sayang mei mei, wants milk milk, boom boom, tu tu, change pampers, take remote control, take handkerchief, wipe mouth mouth, wipe mei mei mouth mouth etc. She's quite a good helper whenever I am carrying Elia and no hand to take remote control or handkerchief.

Bringing her out later, Elia will be taken care by my mum. To shop for new year clothings. Yeah!

Elia wearing Charlotte's scarf. So cute. hehehe

Today is my 2nd attempt to fried fish. My 1st attempt is a failure as in the oil spilled on my arm when I "slowly" place the fish onto the wok. It left a ugly dark colour scar on my arm for a month and made me phobia of frying fish.

Anyhow, Dar loves to eat fried fish so I try to fry today and it was a success. hehehe

Charlotte always take out all her toys and my whole living room is her toys. After I keep for her, she will take out again the same toys. I was thinking of keeping the LEGO cos it's really messing up my living room. But it's a way of learning for her so I guess I have to lun with the untidiness.

Tomorrow going shopping with my sister. Shop for new year clothings and some other stuffs. Mum said she will take care of both babies for me.

Charlotte 招牌 smile. Mouth open big big and 咪咪眼




Elia looks like Michellin Tyre. hahaha

Really into the bling bling stuffs now. Will put diamonte on all my gadgets once I got the time and money. : )

Yesterday met up with the girls for lunch. Had grilled fish at Billy Bombers. Our treat to Joleen to celebrate her birthday. Had a hearty chat with them, arranging Chinese New Year visiting with them. Mahjong and in-between time!! yeah!~

Sometimes it's good to go shopping after 1 month then you can see some changes in the shopping mall. Went Suntec after the lunch and see alot of new shops opened and Careforre changed all the display. Bought a lot of stuffs yesterday.

Actually planned to go Hong Kong in this month but due to Simon's "good" reason as in being unfair to Elia if we only bring Charlotte along so wait til Elia 2years old and Charlotte 3 years old then we bring them together. But his real reason should be these money can use to buy his XBox and new handphone bah... blah......

Washed my 2 fans and curtains on Saturday. Dar trying to decorate his feature wall while I wipe all Charlotte toys cos I noticed she like to taste her toys. Dirty gal...

People just don't see it this way. Being a full time mummy is always labelled as 游手好闲, lazy to work etc

They just don't know you have to wake up as early as 7am and work through 11pm. Including weekends and holidays. No annual leave, No medical cerificate acknowledge, No AWS, No salary, No overtime pay when you woke up in the middle of the night to feed baby.

People just take for granted since you are AT HOME, you have to do everything and you are not abit appreciated by others.

Should I continue being a full time mummy ? Should I go back to work and pays others to take care of my 2 babies ? I am having doubts everyday, pondering over these questions everyday but still no answer come to my head.

Anyway started to send resume out yesterday. See my luck whether can I find a perfect job for myself anot.....

Let nature takes it's course ?

Oh my... so true!! Copied this from Ursula's website. Can predict sooner or later I will also become a mother like this.. hahaha

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uFYcmZEOvW4

Watched 星光大道 yesterday and finally know why 杨宗纬 did not get first in this competition. He got disqualified from it cos he fake his age when he participate and although this show never state the age limit, he still got disqualified due to lying to the company. Such a pity...

Anyway I think 林宥珈 will eventually get number one and get his 一百万. He's just lucky that 杨宗纬 is out from the competition. :p

This Sunday going to meet up with the gals to celebrate Joleen's birthday. But we all have something on after the lunch so it will be only a short meet up. Hope Joleen will not be angry for the short celebration.

There's always songs which linger in your head that represent some memorable moments in your life.

WHen I am in Secondary School, I love to listen to cassette of 伊能静, Jason Donavon Sealed with a kiss etc.

I still remember there's this guy when I am 17 who sang Emil 亲亲我的宝贝on stage during one company's family day at East Coast. He gave me 3 roses on Valentine Day but I did not have chemistry with him so I rejected his flowers.

When I fall in love with my 初恋 also during that family day and that's when the singer on stage sang Sandy Lam 伤痕.

Song like For The Frst Time, I remember it's during my wedding 2nd march in song recommended by Shuping.

WHat about your's ? ANy songs that made you remember someone ? Or some event ?

I think only I can understand how it's feel when your babies are sick. Especially when your kid vomit milk when she cough. I am so busy the past few days changing bedsheets, changing clothes, carrying her when she cry cause nose is blocked etc. Now it's Ursula's turn to be busy.

PS, Ursula, please also take good care of yourself. It's especially difficult if you are sick and have to take care of 2 sick kids. : ) Jia Youz!!~

Something is constantly appearing in my mind telling me something is not right but I can't figure out what is it. Having problem sleeping soundly recently and don't feel hungry even I skipped lunch. What's wrong with me ? Stress ? Money issue ? Or lack of rest and play ?

MC King



A familiar name/comedian in our life passed away this afternoon. I think is suddenly breathing problem and he's gone. He's only 40 years old.

Life is so fragile. It takes you a second to give birth to a new life and it also takes a second to take your life away.

Cherish what you have and do what you want to do cos life is short and you never know what's going to happen next second.

Live your life the fullest everyday....

RIP MC King.... although you duno me....

I managed to survive taking care of my babies without assistance yesterday! Hope today will be as smooth as yesterday. : )

Next week have to start my spring cleaning. I shall start from Dar's study room ( which is the most messy one ) first.

Time flies very fast, LNY coming soon. Time to give ang bao and go visiting. Since now I can't collect ang bao, I shall look forward to the 2 reunion dinners. hehe I always tell my friends when you can only give ang baos, you must earn back the money from the children by playing cards with them. Not teaching them to gamble lah... just for the fun of LNY. A must do and must learn "skill".

I know for sure by the time Charlotte and ELia is about 7-8 years old, I definately will teach them mahjong. 3 reasons : -

1 ) Can 凑一角 when we short one leg.
2 ) Won't pay tuition fee to their friends when they grow up ( meaning losing money )
3 ) Learn to remember tiles can activate their memory skill ( right ? )

hahaha me and my stupid reasons..... just wan to have more people play mahjong with me only lah....... :p

I know what you are thinking now... What kind of mother is this...
Na na ne bu bu... cannot meh? they are my kids lor... kekekeke

Just heard from tv news. Last year a cab driver knocked down a man at Orchard Road was sentenced to a year jail.

This is a very ridiculous and unneccessary fatal accident. I think the cabbie only scatched the man's car then the man quarrelled with the cab driver. The cab driver does not want to waste time quarrelling with him so he got on his cab and intended to drive away since they have exchanged their licence and taken down the particulars ( everything can be settled by their insurance companies )

But this man just can't let the cabbie go and he used his body to stop the cab and resulting himself being knocked down. A month after, the man died due to the great impact on his head after 3 major operations.

I felt that the man is very stupid to get aggitated so easily and even it's a big dent on his car, it can be repaired. He must be someone who treat money more important than his own life. Why take risk of killing yourself when it's such a minor accident ?

Moral of the story : Never make assumptions.

This reminds me of the day before when I went Ikea with Dar and Charlotte. I was carrying Charlotte and Dar taking umbrella cos it's raining and we were crossing the road when there's a lot of cars leaving the car park. I am just being caution stopping before the car approach me but Dar tell me why I am so afraid when they should stop the car for me. THey won't dare to knock me down one.

I am so angry cos I am just being careful. Somemore I am carrying Charlotte in my arms. Why must I take risk or assume the car will stop when it's not even a zebra crossing or traffic light ? I think Dar realised he is being harsh on me so after about 10 minutes, he tried to talk to me again. haiz.... Dar is soooo similar to the man whom I mentioned above. Hope he will change his way of thinking in this.

Who else in the world will blog in the middle of the night? Now it's 6am and I am blogging. As usual it's Elia woking me up. She got the contegious coughing virus from us so I fed her medicine and changed her clothing cos she vomit out some after feeding.

Parents headed for Genting last night and I am left alone for 2 days with my 2 cranky sick kids plus I am still in the recovering stage, I wonder can I handle....

Why is it everytime I need help, Dar cannot take leave. Dar's subordinate took mc today so he can't take leave to help me. So pek chek...

Before going Genting, mum came to see her granddotters last night and she commented something that never came across my mind. She said 你好像越来越瘦和憔悴，你只照顾好你的两个宝贝没有照顾你自己。

I dun eat as regularly compared to last time when I am working. As a full time mummy, u can only cook/feed yourself when ur kids are sleeping/not crying. So everyday after finishes my daily chores in the morning, I can only take my lunch around 2plus. Morning I only have time to eat bread and coffee ( here I am talking about 8am ), then dinner is around 7plus. Somemore I have small appetite recently.

Must learn to organise my time better from today onwards. If not I think by the time Ursula come back, she will see a skeleton Joel. hahaha

Cooling night... Elia woke up at 330am to change diapers and drink milk. After feeding her I can't sleep already. So now i am watching 康熙来了and surfing.

Server very slow, Facebook slow, Friendster slow and Blogger also slow. I think a lot of people are online sending their greetings to relatives and friends bah.

Cable got Taipei countdown concert and a lot of singers performing. The show started from just now 7pm to 1am. Now showing repeat telecast. Long time never see 刘若英 sings. She looked different now, not that stylo anymore.

Cyndi 王欣凌 also can't perform live show well, she's panting so hard while she performs. Maybe it's also because it's cold there as she kept saying 今晚特别冷.

Taiwanese so fortunate have such a big and long concert. Wish I am there singing along with them and countdown.